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On Love and Loss

Amy Bloom and Xanthi Barker Interviewed by Matthew Stadlen

Sunday, 3 April 2022

4:00pm

1 hour

St Cross College

£7 - £12.50

Writers Amy Bloom and Xanthi Barker talk about love, loss and grief, which are at the centre of their recent memoirs.

Bloom, author of four novels, recounts in In Love the heartbreaking story of her husband Brian’s descent into Alzheimer’s and of her journey with him to Switzerland where he was helped by Dignitas to end his life. She describes how she struggled to find a way to support her terminally ill husband’s wish to end his life and explores the ethical problems raised by assisted death. Bloom is author of White Houses, Lucky Us, Away and Love Invents Us, and three collections of short stories. She is the Shapiro-Silverberg Professor of Creative Writing at Wesleyan University.

Barker is a new writer. Will This House Last Forever? is her first major work. It describes the grief she felt in her mid-20s when her father, poet Sebastian Barker, died, even though he had been largely absent in her life. The book is about the pain of having to come to terms with a parent’s mortality and the way grief defies logic.

Here they talk to former LBC radio host and BBC presenter Matthew Stadlen.

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FT Weekend Title partner University of Oxford Netflix European Union Delegation of the European Union to the United Kingdom Cultural Relations Platform Supporter of the festival's Voices of Europe programme BBC World Service International radio partner Owen Mumford Supporter of programme of science and medicine and annual science and innovation award Bodleian Libraries Festival cultural partner Oxford Martin School Festival ideas partner Spanish Embassy Event generously supported by the Spanish Embassy Cervantes Institute, London Republic of Panama Event generously supported by Republic of Panama Italian Embassy Supporter of Italian programme The Dorchester Hotels Collection Festival London hotel partner International Literary Properties Supporters of the festival green room Blackwell’s Festival on-site and online bookseller The Randolph Hotel by Graduate Hotels Sponsor of the festival crime fiction programme The Feathers Hotel Woodstock festival hotel John Roberts Lady Hatch Patron donor for the programme of Irish literature and culture Emily Rose and James Marrow Supporters of the programme of American literature and culture Miles Young Masumi and Jonathan Dobson George Warren Pank Koria CEO of Project People Lucian Hudson Carole and John Allen David Isaac Jill Dunsmore Mary and Cecil Quillen Supporters of the programme of American literature and culture Anna Hunter Marlene Hauser Exeter College Exeter College: college home of the festival New College Worcester College Worcester College Lincoln College Lincoln College St Cross College St Cross College Trinity College Trinity College Pasture to Plate Compassion in World Farming Symington Wines of the Douro Valley Princeton University Press Prestige publishing partner TORVA Books which change you, your mind, your world Transworld Doubleday Doubleday Bantam Jewish Book Week Partner of Jewish programme Foodbuy Thje Menu Partners Institute of Hospitality Project People Royal Academy of Arts British Academy Oxford Centre for Hebrew and Jewish Studies Racalia Olive Oil Olive oil from Sicily The Oxford Times Regional media partner BBC Radio Oxford Local radio partner Bear Ram Elk Festival Digital Strategy & Web Design Paul Bloomfield Ltd University of Oxford Alumni Office Alumni Office Oxford Centre for Islamic Studies Conference Oxford Felicity Bryan Associates CAV Oxford Critchleys Accountants to the festival The Sheldonian Theatre Oxford University Images Oxford University Images Oxford Brookes University Siren Communications Siren Communications - corporate consultants OX magazine Ox in a Box K T Bruce Photography K T Bruce Photography The Litmus Partnership Schoolreaders Chêne Bleu Wines of Provence La Leccia Flip through Flanders Literature Ireland Confucius Institute Pusey House James Currey Society The Wild Geese