Lola-lafon
Lola Lafon

When You Listen to This Song: On Memory, Loss, and Writing

Lola Lafon

Wednesday, 25 March 2026

2:00pm

1 hour

Pusey House: Ursell Room

£10 - £18

Leading French feminist intellectual and novelist Lola Lafon talks about her prize-winning reflection on Anne Frank, on her own family’s experience of the Holocaust and on her own loss of a childhood friend.

Lafon was given permission to spend a night alone in the room in Amsterdam where Anne Frank and her family hid away from the Nazis. It led her to explore the stories told about Anne Frank and to look for the disciplined writer at the heart of the Anne Frank myth. Lafon reflects on what it means to lose loved ones, including her own family’s losses during the Holocaust and her own loss of a childhood friend to the Khmer Rouge. She asks us to consider how we deal with loss and asks why women write when faced with danger and confinement.

Lafon is a French writer who grew up in Eastern Europe. Her books include The Little Communist Who Never Smiled and Reeling: A Novel. When You Listen to This Song won the Grand Prix des Lectrices ELLE literary prize for non-fiction.

Part of the festival’s programme of Jewish and Hebrew literature and culture and part of the Voices of Europe programme.

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The Telegraph Festival media partner University of Oxford European Union Bodleian Libraries Festival cultural partner Oxford Martin School Festival ideas partner Oxford Mathematics Spanish Embassy The Spanish Embassy: supporters of the programme of Spanish literature and culture Spain Arts and Culture Blackwell’s Festival on-site and online bookseller Symington Wines of the Douro Valley HM Government of Gibraltar Compassion in World Farming Pasture to Plate Old Bank Hotel Five-star hotel partners of The Oxford Collection Old Parsonage Hotel Five-star hotel partners of The Oxford Collection Oxford Brookes University Oxford International Centre for Publishing Gravita Accountants to the festival Mirabaud Private bank - London Confucius Institute Voltaire Foundation Felicity Bryan Associates Goldmoney Properties Princeton University Press Prestige publishing partner. Celebrating 25 years in Europe in 2024 Oxford University Department for Continuing Education Jewish Book Week Partner of Oxford Literary Festival Pol Roger Duff Cooper Prize Jim Mellon Miles Young Tim and Marion Stevenson Martin and Elise Becket Smith Jason and Heidi Smith David Isaac Other donors Yale University Press London New College New College founded 1379 Exeter College Exeter College: college home of the festival. Founded 1314 Worcester College Worcester College founded 1714 Lincoln College Lincoln College founded 1427 Trinity College Trinity College founded 1555 Magdalen College Magdalen College founded 1458 Reuben College Reuben College founded in 2019 Harris Manchester College Harris Manchester College founded 1893 Pusey House Founded 1884 New Dutch Writing Human Ecology Project MACROVegan Colbenson Festival digital strategy & web design Racalia Olive Oil Olive oil from Sicily Paul Bloomfield Ltd University of Oxford Alumni Office Alumni Office The Sheldonian Theatre Oxford Centre for Hebrew and Jewish Studies Oxford Centre for Islamic Studies Italian Cultural Institute Oxford University Images Oxford University Images CAV Oxford The Litmus Partnership Schoolreaders Science Oxford Windrush Group The Oxford Times BBC Radio Oxford Local radio partner Conference Oxford Ox in a Box OX magazine