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Chine McDonald
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Jessica Hamel-Akré

Unmaking Mary: Shattering the Myth of Perfect Motherhood

Chine McDonald talks to Jessica Hamel-Akré

Saturday, 28 March 2026

10:00am

1 hour

Weston Lecture Theatre

£10 - £18

Think tank director Chine McDonald explains how to free yourself from the myth of perfect motherhood perpetuated by art, literature, culture and society.

McDonald uses her own experience as a mother of two boys, history and culture to examine the expectations placed on mothers. She starts with the Virgin Mary and looks at portrayals of mothers in art, literature, culture and society across the centuries. McDonald says these portrayals have created ‘false and restrictive motherhood ideals that choke and shame and oppress and torment’. McDonald looks at, among other things, body image, whether to work or not work, media and social media portrayals, poor preparation for motherhood, community support, miscarriage and infertility.

‘Motherhood has given me the highest of highs and the lowest of lows… [it] has been my most profound altering.’ Chine McDonald

McDonald is director of Theos, the religion and society think tank. She is a regular contributor to television and radio including to BBC Radio 4’s Thought for the Day. She is also author of God Is Not A White Man: and Other Revelations. Here she talks to historian and cultural strategy consultant Dr Jessica Hamel-Akré, author of The Art of Not Eating: A Doubtful History of Appetite and Desire.

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The Telegraph Festival media partner University of Oxford European Union Bodleian Libraries Festival cultural partner Oxford Martin School Festival ideas partner Oxford Mathematics Spanish Embassy The Spanish Embassy: supporters of the programme of Spanish literature and culture Spain Arts and Culture Blackwell’s Festival on-site and online bookseller Symington Wines of the Douro Valley HM Government of Gibraltar Compassion in World Farming Pasture to Plate Old Bank Hotel Five-star hotel partners of The Oxford Collection Old Parsonage Hotel Five-star hotel partners of The Oxford Collection Oxford Brookes University Oxford International Centre for Publishing Gravita Accountants to the festival Mirabaud Private bank - London Confucius Institute Voltaire Foundation Felicity Bryan Associates Goldmoney Properties Princeton University Press Prestige publishing partner. Celebrating 25 years in Europe in 2024 Oxford University Department for Continuing Education Jewish Book Week Partner of Oxford Literary Festival Pol Roger Duff Cooper Prize Jim Mellon Miles Young Tim and Marion Stevenson Martin and Elise Becket Smith Jason and Heidi Smith David Isaac Other donors Yale University Press London New College New College founded 1379 Exeter College Exeter College: college home of the festival. Founded 1314 Worcester College Worcester College founded 1714 Lincoln College Lincoln College founded 1427 Trinity College Trinity College founded 1555 Magdalen College Magdalen College founded 1458 Reuben College Reuben College founded in 2019 Harris Manchester College Harris Manchester College founded 1893 Pusey House Founded 1884 New Dutch Writing Human Ecology Project MACROVegan Colbenson Festival digital strategy & web design Racalia Olive Oil Olive oil from Sicily Paul Bloomfield Ltd University of Oxford Alumni Office Alumni Office The Sheldonian Theatre Oxford Centre for Hebrew and Jewish Studies Oxford Centre for Islamic Studies Italian Cultural Institute Oxford University Images Oxford University Images CAV Oxford The Litmus Partnership Schoolreaders Science Oxford Windrush Group The Oxford Times BBC Radio Oxford Local radio partner Conference Oxford Ox in a Box OX magazine